Saturday 23 January 2010

Rupster says " About Missing Someone"

"Why is it that when you miss someone much that your heart is ready to disintegrate, you hear the saddest song on the radio".

This saying is extremely true. Sometimes we do wonder why do we miss a person so much in live. Everyone misses someone. It could be anyone we love. It could be our mother, father, siblings, grandparents, uncles, aunties, cousins, friends, pets or even our boyfriend/girlfriend.

Rupster thinks we tend to miss someone because of all the things we have done with them. All the good times as well as all the bad times that we've gone through together. When we are far apart that is when we tend to miss the person very dear to the heart. Thinking back of the past and wondering why cant the person be right beside you at that very moment. Mind you, we could also miss someone that we've just met yesterday or worst still just a few minutes back. So what else bout missing someone that you've not seen for days, weeks, months and years!

Its not only when you sit and think that brings you back to memory lane. Sometimes when you look at a particular object next to you could make you think of the person. Sometimes it could be places that you have been with that person makes you think back of the person.

There is never a cure to it. The best remedy to it is just to have all those moments captured in your mind, heart and soul. This is because those are the things that would help you overcome the feeling of missing someone. Sometimes these feelings could be very disturbing to the extend of distracting our other activities. But than again, that the feeling that reminds of you of that person. Thus its a feeling that you could hate but love it at the same time.

People turn to many ways to overcome this situation.

Some, it is during these times that we turn to music. Music is one of the best companion at that point of time. You hear the lyrics and the wonderful music. Sometimes you feel the song is written specially for you for that very particular moment. Rupster is not sure about others, but Rupster has gone through this situation many times.

When you really hear and analyze the song, you would end up thinking that song just sings your feelings. You could have one song as such. But Rupster has many songs in mind to fit in to that situation. The music could either be a fast number or even a slow number but it just fits in well for the situation. At times an unknown language song could end up being the song of the current moment.

That is when you wonder how come a happy and fast song could turn out to be the saddest thing that you have heard.

So people, happy missing someone in life just like Rupster is missing someone at this very point of time. But she is loving it very much. After all its the distance that makes the heart grow fonder!

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