Rupster says "Thank You"

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.


When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance
and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a go dsend
and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their
work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come
to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
Things you must buil d upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships
and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Rupster says "About Missing You"

MISSING YOU

Time goes by a lot slower when you miss the one you love.

I did three things today; miss you, miss you, and miss you.

Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.

Each time I miss you, a star falls down from the sky. So, if you looked up at the sky and found it dark with no stars, it is all your fault. You made me miss you too much!

Life is so short, so fast the lone hours fly, We ought to be together, you and I.

A day without you is like a day without sunshine… I miss you…

When I see your smile, and I know it’s not for me, that’s when I’ll miss you.

A hug for you means I need you. A kiss for you means I love you. A call for you means I’m missing you.

I’m a fish out of water without you.

It’s true we don’t know what we’ve got until its gone, but we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.

Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart.

I miss your love I miss your touch, But I’m feeling you everyday.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.

Love reckons hours for months, and days for years; and every little absence is an age.

For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else.

Cause I love you and I miss you, hearing your voice is the closest thing to touching you.

I dropped a tear in the ocean. The day you find it is the day I will stop missing you.

Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure, if I knew you were missing me too.

The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.

You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.

You may be out of my sight… but never out of my mind… I Miss You!

Although we’ve come to the end of the road, still I can’t let you go, it’s unnatural, you belong to me, I belong to you .

When I miss you, I don’t have to go far … I just have to look inside my heart because that’s where I’ll find you.

I think we dream so we don’t have to be apart so long. If we’re in each other’s dreams, we can play together all night.

I heard someone whisper your name, but when I turned around to see who it was, I was alone. Then I realized that it was my heart telling me that I miss you.

When I miss you, sometimes I listen to music or look at pictures of you, not to remind me of you but to make me feel as if I’m with you. It makes me forget the distance and capture you.

Nothing hurts more then waiting since I don’t even know what I’m waiting for anymore.

To me you are my rose; every day when I see a beautiful rose I think of you, and miss you, and hope to hold you in my arms.

Can miles truly separate you from friends…. If you want to be with someone you love, aren’t you already there?

Why is it that when you miss someone so much that your heart is ready to disintegrate, you hear the saddest song on the radio?

Rupster came accross this very touching poem over the net some time back...Its meaning is so deep that sometimes Rupster feels its something that came out deep down from Rupster's heart.

So deep that sometimes Rupster would sit and read it back again and again.... its so damn TRUE!!!!

Rupster says "Kassipilay goes under water"

The front

Its been ages since the land of Kampung Kassipilay has gone through a masive floods like this...most of time the water just covers the road and subsides off...this time after 23 years the water decided to pay a visit to each and every single house...

The back

Well Rupster had grew up in this lovely neighborhood since the day Rupster was born..Untill today,as neighbors we still go to each others places for visiting during festivals,we still acknowledge each other.

The room

Another memorable incident that gets the whole neighborhood out at a time is when FLOODS hits!!!! This place has been famous for its flash floods for ages!! The best part was, as kids we used to take a walk in the flood water of the entire place.In other words we used to enjoy playing with the water...not used to but STILL love doing it!!!!

Up view

But in the past years it has reduce tremendously compared to what it used to be those days. Though the floods still used to come on and off it was only may be up to the gate or just the road..


Yesterday it was a whole complete different situation!!! The water manage to push in all the way into the house and covered up the whole place with mud!!!


In other words the water came rushing in from the front door and as well as the back door..RESULTING the whole downstairs filled with stinky mud!!!!

Mr.Dad posing as he washes the mud away...

It was a havoc cleaning the entire place up but Rupster guess Rupster desrves it because Rupster has always been hoping for the floods to come. Infact, this is the very first time seeing the floods this bad because the bad floods that occurd before this Rupster never exsisted in this world..hahaha....

It was not only this area got flooded but there were also areas were also effected by the floods. Thus it caused a massive jam in the entire town of KUALA LUMPUR. People got stranded on the roads for hours. Electricity were cut of at certain areas and there was no was no water supply to start the cleaning process.

Mrs.Mummy posses to in the water

Today, as the whole neighbourhood were busy cleaning up thier houses, it was seen that many people have lost lots of things in this very floods. The amount of rubbish collected is unbeleiveable. Seeing the rubbish,spoilt furniture and things thrown out of the house makes Rupster ponder how much people have lost in just that hour...

The hall area

P/S The water level that you see in the pictures is the very much subsided water level.Rupster got back late from class to capture the actual water level...but yet Rupster is still glad to be able to walk all the way in the flood water back home and capture some of the moments rather than nothing :)

Rupster says "The 6 Keys to Success"

Rupster found this interesting tips passed down through an email..

"The 6 Keys to Success"

1. Attitude

Bloom where you are planted. You have a choice to get back up after temporary set backs. Attitude is a small thing that makes a big difference!

2. Direction

If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there. Write your short term goals down on paper. I have discovered and continue to discover that putting your dreams and goals down on paper lock in or focus your belief that they can be achieved--even if you have to take a course correction in achieving your goals. Success comes in cans, failure comes in can'ts.

3. Values

Explore what is important to you. Maybe it is family, friends, your spirituality or working hard at any given task. I can assure you that your priorities will change as you grow older. Very important that you value yourself and treat yourself like the valuable gift from God that you are.

4. Interests

Birds of a feather flock together. This is to say that if you are hanging around winners or others with a "can do" mind-set, you'll likely adapt to this same kind of thinking. Remember--"SUCCESS LEAVES CLUES!



5. Commitment

Feelings may change, commitments do not. "Success is getting up one more time than you fall." I have often wanted to give up, and then I must think to myself about what the consequences of giving up will be. Generally, this is more than enough of a motivation to make us stick to the task at hand even if we don't feel like it. When the task is achieved, Whow!--IT FEELS GREAT!

6. Encouragement

Be an encourager and comforter to friends that are feeling discouraged. I promise that you will not regret this as you will be encouraged by one, if not many, when you are feeling down. Encouragement and love are contagious qualities that can change the minds of the most stubborn and "hard-to-get- along-with" people you know. I have seen it happen over and over again.

Something really interesting to be used in our daily routines. It could also help reach the objectives we have in life....

Rupster says "About February"

2009 February has ended with 28 days..

There goes the second month of the year and we moved on to the third month of the year...Like January, February was also filled with so much of activities...


If there's activities, than for sure it would had been full of fun.

It was basically another month like how January was.


February also marked the month were most of us were going back to school after a long break. Australian based universities resumed classes at the end of the month. Thus, Salveen too flew back to Aussie.


Like the first time, it was really hard to blend in Rupster that she was not going to be around for another few more months!!! Thank god there is technology today that enables us to keep in touch much easier...

Leaving the month update aside,

Rupster wonders why is it sometimes so hard to leave or walk away from things. Walking away is never a good option but sometimes some issues just need to be pusjed aside to overcome it. Is that why people these days get into smoking,drugs and aloholism to divert thier minds away?


But till this very day Rupster beleives that all those are never the right way to overcome stress. Its most probably psychological effect to them because they think by having those, problems will be pushed aside...

So why do people take that as an alternative to thier problems?

Though so much fun has happen in the last 2 months, Rupster has also been doing so much of thinking...

Things have been so complicated but Rupster has been depending on past memories to make sure that things are not so complicated. Thus, Rupster came to a decision to start moving on. The decison has been made but the implimantation of the decision has not been easy.

Rupster wonders how long would it take??? Till than what should be done???

Even though Rupster has decided to move on but those things are still so fresh in mind that sometimes makes Rupster wonder if the desion to move on is the right step or not.

On a brighter side, moving on would mean things will not be as weired as it has been for the past few weeks. Things will not get back to be like how it was at the very start but atleast it would not be as weired as it was.


The decision has also been said out and hopefully things will get back to normal like how it used to be. It may be hard but we got to work hard to getthings back straight again. Rupster knows that and relises somethings done may have hurt and touched the feelings but BELEIVE Rupster please that all the things done were not on purpose!!!

It was alll unintentionally done due to the situation and the complicated mind of Rupster. Apology has also been extended and will still be extended..Rupster is very very SORRY for what ever that has been said and done!!!

That desicion had to be made to get back things like how it used to be. It would be hard but there is no other choice that can be looked at. Though the move on desicion has been taken, thus Rupster needs to start working on the implemantation steps ASAP!!!

There is alwasy a regret at the end of the day for doin all those hurting words but the mind was to complicated that cased all that!!!

And the regret of behaving like that would always be deep down in the heart as a reminder on not to repeat those sarcasm ever again....

Rupster says "About the holidays"

Its been a great 3 months journey that Rupster has ever had after such a long time. Summer holidays *though we live in Malaysia,Rupster is doing an Aussie Degree* for the very first time has been extremely enjoyable.

Thinking of what had happen long before that, the 3 months has been able to help Rupster to get back to the right path *hopefully* and has also brought back the old Rupster but with some new changes that are positive as well as negative too.

It has to be that way because, without being mean once in a while, we would not get to survive this world that is filled with so much positivism and negativism.
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Rupster is extremely lucky because most of the friends are actually doing Australian degrees in which we all have the almost same amount of holidays at the same time. Besides that it was also the month of December where most local university's also have their holidays. This was a very good opportunity for all of us to meet up often and spend lots of time together.

I has also enabled us to meet back long lost friends whom we never really kept in touch and some of them whom we hardly spoke to in school. Today, Rupster is so glad to meet back some old friends that she never really got to sit and talk to way back in school.

This holidays has also taught Rupster so much on what life can be like. After the whole long incident of last year, probably this was the time Rupster was waiting for all the while.

Lots of great things had happend ever since the new year started and all those memories will keep Rupster goin for a very long time. Some of them Rupster just did think would happen but it all actually happened. Though some of it did not and will not last for a very long time but at the end of the day, it has kept Rupster smilling on untill this very day.

Those were the feelings that would never leave you until the day you decide to leave it or even on the day ypu decide to leave it, there is always a possibility that one day or rather you would still sit and think of all those good and valuable memories.

Sometimes you just wished you could stop the clock so that it does not continue to tick and end the day for a new start. But there is no way for that. Hence, for every start there's always an end to it. The end could either be the very next moment,minute,hour,day,week,month or even years.

Well Rupster was asked not to wait. But Rupster thinks there is no harm in waiting. Is Rupster right or wrong? Will the wait make Rupster stronger or weaker?

To get over 1 part took Rupster more than 5 YEARS....thus in this Rupster does not know how long its going to be but Rupster knows for sure everything happens for a reason. If there is no happy ending to it friends would always remain as friends.

Thanks for being so understanding. All Rupster need now is time. And you have given Rupster all the time given. Will try to full fill what you had asked but no promises yea..haha....but if Rupster has ever hurt you...im very sorry aite...

The 3 months of long holidays will oficially come to an end today and a brand new semester has been all lined of from tomorow onwards....

Rupster says "About the Birthday and Farewell"

Since THE ROLLER COASTER LIFE OF RUPSTER has not been updated for about 2 weeks now...

Here is a short update that Rupster has here...

This was a gathering held to ive Karlz a surprise Birthday pary as well as Sal's farewell that Rupster has been planing for about a week.

The original plan was to either go to Genting or Sunway Lagoon to celebrate the birthday. Than suddenly everyone was coming down to KL to bid farwell to Sal. So i decided to combine both of it so that we all did not have to have the haselle of going to different places.


So we decided for Mid Valley since it was the center point for everyone to get there. Everyone were there by 2.30 and off we went for lunch at Nandos. The cake was only bought half way through lunch when Karlz decided to go out for a while. So we rushed to go get the cake and passed it over to the waiter at Nando's before we went in.


Than after we all finished our food,Karlz and I left to go get some stuff. That when it striked me to call Thuls and tell them to get the cake ready on the table. Haha..Rupster's criminal mind was working extreamly well after so long just for that day!!!


The day turned to be so much fun, laughter and not forgetting tears too!!! It is only things like this that everyone gets to gether at one table and be away from thier busy daily routines.

The nyum..nyum cake

The family picture...

Gonna miss you all over again :(

The whole group that came...

The group shot that the photographer could not get himself in the picture.

Some weired effect we discovered in camera

The fun running away after the flash...hahaha

Then in the night, Chuman,Getz,Karlz and Rupster decided to carry on with the lepaking session that was filled with so much laughter!!!

Villa Angsana would have probably collapse with Karlz and Getz laughter if we did not decide to go and continue the session in the car...

At the end of the day, it was another day that would be cherished forever in all our lives. It would be a lesson that we would take and use it as guidance for our future.

To Sal, hope you take good care of yourself. MSN,telephone,web caming and SMSes shall be the mode of communication again until you get back the next time. Have fun there and study hard aite!!

To Karlz, this was the only small thing that Rupster manage to plan for you in a very short period due to the changes of plans. Hopefuly you enjoyed the day!!!

To that person who has been there for Rupster for this past few month *u know who u r*, thank you so much for all the support and encouragement that u've been giving me all this while. Ruspter is so sorry bout whatever Rupster has been telling you. Rupster knows its very wrong but all Rupster is asking is for time to get over the whole thing.